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Stress builds when things feel uncertain and high-stakes. Letters arrive late, plans change, travel is awkward, and you’re expected to stay calm for interviews, hearings, probation meetings, unpaid work sessions or fines calls. Your body reacts first: tight chest, quick breathing, sore shoulders, headaches, an upset stomach and a jumpy mind. You can’t remove stress from the process, but you can bring it down to a level where you can think clearly and act sensibly.
Start by shrinking the day to something manageable. Wake at a regular time, get washed, eat something simple and step outside for daylight. Set one short window for case admin so updates don’t spill into the evening. When new information lands, drop it into your notebook and return to it in the next window. After any stressful event, give yourself half an hour to reset before you make fresh decisions.
Use your body to steady your mind. Breathe out longer than you breathe in, feel your feet on the floor and notice a few things in the room to bring attention back from racing thoughts. A brisk walk, a warm shower or ten quiet minutes with a familiar playlist will lower the level enough to take the next step. If stress spikes during an appointment or visit, ask for a brief pause and continue when you’ve settled.
Keep information tidy so it weighs less. One notebook for dates, decisions and next actions is enough. After a meeting with your solicitor, probation officer or a fines officer, write a two-line recap of what happens next and when. Ask for key points in writing and for instructions to be set out plainly if fast conversations leave you behind. Clear notes cut through worry and stop the same thoughts circling.
Protect your sleep and fuel. Regular meals and water help you cope. Caffeine late in the day and late-night scrolling dial stress up, so keep both earlier. If you’re waking in the night, write the worry down, take a few slow breaths and settle again. Gentle movement most days makes a bigger difference than people expect; even a ten-minute walk counts on a heavy day.
Plan for known pressure points. If calls make you tense, write a short script with the questions you need answered and read it during the call. If busy waiting areas wind you up, arrive a little early, take a loop outside and ask for a quieter space or for questions in writing. For unpaid work, request clear instructions, predictable breaks and a quick recap at the end. For fines, ask for a straightforward payment plan with dates and amounts highlighted so there are no surprises.
Lean on steady people. Tell one trusted person what’s coming up and what would help, whether that’s a lift, company on a walk, or taking notes in a meeting. If you’re the supporter, protect your own rest and boundaries so you don’t burn out. Agree a time of day to handle case admin so it doesn’t take over every conversation.
Ask for help early when stress starts to crowd out daily life. Speak to your GP about anxiety, low mood, panic or sleep, and ask what support is available locally. Brief talking therapies teach practical tools that fit alongside the process. Be honest about alcohol or drug use if you’re using them to cope; non-judgmental help is there and you’ll feel better faster with steadier habits.
If you need to talk now, help is available day and night. Call Samaritans on 116 123 for confidential emotional support, text SHOUT to 85258 for free 24/7 text support, or use NHS 111 for urgent mental health help. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.
Stress will rise and fall as the case moves on. You don’t have to fix everything today. Keep the routine, ground your body, tidy the information and take the next sensible action. Step by step, you’ll feel steadier.
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This page gives general information only. It is not legal advice.